Do material things make
us happy? This is a topic that is controversial to many people. Studies show
that most people believe if they could get a new house, a new car, or some
other possession, they would be happier. The media today portrays people with a
huge mansion, expensive exotic cars, and the hundred-foot yacht to have a
fulfilling, happy life. However, the truth is that the pursuit and purchase of
physical possession will never fully satisfy our desire for happiness. It can
indeed bring us joy, but that is just temporary. Happiness found in buying a
new item rarely lasts longer than a few days. Researchers even have a phrase
for this temporary fulfillment, which is called retail therapy.
I personally experience
this myself as I was quite materialistic in my early 20s. I see an expensive
brand to be a symbol of success and happiness. I will also feel the need to own
certain possessions so that I can show it off to my friends and others. I did
this so that I can feel secure and accepted by my friends and others. But after
going through with personal experience in trying to compete, who has the
coolest stuff made me realize that material possession doesn’t make you
happy. In this article, I would like to discuss why buying stuff will
never make you happy and what you should do with the money you have.